Dazed and Confused

[Tulo]

Peace

To add to this, there are two outcomes of snooping:
- you find something. But you already knew something was going on. So all you've done is cause pain to yourself.
- you find nothing. But was it nothing or was there something and it got deleted? Or did you just not look in the right place? Ultimately, it's a rabbit hole that leads nowhere. Either way, you certainly haven't added trust.

So, what have you gained by snooping? Either a bunch of pain or nothing. So why bother?

This is very true Matt.. I'll try and take it to heart and stop checking that bloody FB all the time..
Very good advice!