Letting go of past anger when I am upset about something else. Like yesterday, my oldest got in trouble at school. He STUPIDLY googled "condom on a stick" on a school computer. (Catholic school) ummmmmmm NOT the brightest thing to do kid! So I got a phone call from the principal and he got one day out of school suspension. I was upset and ALL the bad memories of H and his family judging my parenting came flooding back. I was emotional and angry/resentful at H even though yesterday's incident had NOTHING to do with him. It just brought back the bad memories. We didn't fight but I know I treated him differently yesterday.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction