first post; my story

[Kembo05]

My W talked to me last night and she communicated some stuff about how she was upset and confused that I never recognized her feelings and I dismissed her feelings for so long. I just validated what she said and then she would say she did a really good job of pretending like everything was OK and then she would go back to saying she didn't understand how I didn't check on her or recognize her feelings.

I definitely have different opinions about this issue because she never gave me anything but positive reinforcement and constantly telling me how lucky she was and how happy she was. So all of that is a little confusing.

I do know she is not logical right now so i'm not putting a ton of emotions into what she said. I just hope me listening and validating what she was saying is good in the long run