I'll make it clear tonight that I want to be back in the bed. I'm guessing the response will be "it's MY house". The difference here too is that she HAS been paying the mortgage while I paid down my debt. Her preference was I focus on that. I do pay the cell phone bills, the cable bill, and our very expensive gym membership in addition to transferring $200 a month to her account. I upped it to $500 going forward as my debt is to a point where I can afford it.
The money means more to her than me. It's sad that I'm at a point finally where I can start contributing more financially, and now this is happening.
