Touch and Go?

[Sis]

Wonderful message to wake up to, thank you so much.

1. What happened in March of 2012 was an evaluation at work that was less than adequate. He had taken a leap of faith and took a job in Seattle away from family and friends ( he and I were commuting between Chicago since we still had one in high school) I eventually moved out there to be with him. We were happy, life was good. After the evaluation he impulsively quit the job and relocated to a small town in VA. A good job with a good salary but I didn't follow him. I was disappointed at yet another job change and since the girls were post college, I moved back to Chicago where he bought us a home. We were living as husband and wife up until June 2014. The double rejection seem to be the start of his crisis. I have apologized and acknowledged not making him a priority but I do believe he has ADHD often making a lot of impulsive decisions.

2.Yes he disconnected from family and old friends

3.Hobbies are the same, biking and hiking and brewing beer

4. He seems to be a workaholic during his crisis

5. Doesn't talk about needing time alone but states that he's never put himself first and it's time

6. Has just recently ( 3 months) started to reconnect with our girls, his family and old friends in a genuine, sincere way.

I woke up today feeling like a bit of a door mat, it's hard to maintain patience like this so I truly appreciate your message.

Thanks again
Sis