Journaling:
STBX called this morning, we said our hellos, and she began asking about last night. She was calm and asked about the missed FaceTime call with kids and all the calls she made. I told her that I had a discussion group and then went out with some friends. I changed the subject to the kids and our drop off plans for today. STBX asked again about what I did last night. I just tell STBX that I went to this new place with some friends. She replies with, "That's great!"

STBX dropped off S1 with me as she was taking D4 to school. She got out of her car to give me some money for a bill. She then commented on how she liked my new shoes. I decided to nonchalantly ask STBX is she wanted to join the kids and I on a day trip that I have planned for tomorrow. She seemed interested, stated that she would go, and said that it sounded fun. She then gave me and S1 a hug and said it was good to see me.

I thought it was interesting that STBX had a lot of makeup on this morning. It seemed excessive for just dropping off D4 at school. I have no idea what her plans are today but she does deserve to have time to herself too. STBX did tell me the other night that she plans to meet up with some friends from work tonight. None of my business though.

I have no expectations for tomorrow. Actually, I fully expect STBX to not come along tomorrow, especially if she's out late tonight, gets a hotel, etc.

Either way, I'm looking forward to my next two days with the kiddos.


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15