I guess the whole thing right now is that she thinks she's getting away with it. That I still think it was some random guy in a NY bar and that it's over.
A part of me just wants to say I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING AND WHO YOU'RE DOING IT WITH! YOU'RE NOT FOOLING ME!!
But I don't suppose anything constructive would come from that conversation... So I guess I'll keep it to myself.
You dont want to be in a relationship with her while she is in a relationship with someone else.
That is when saying the above might mean something.