Kramer, she's not making baby steps......she's playing games. She has just been rejected by OM and you don't even know where she was the other night, b/c she ain't telling. Suddenly, she starts teasing about slipping in the back door at night? That is not progress, guys!
What should you do? Keep you door locked!
Do not contact her about it, do not make any reference to what she said. Do NOT ask her any more questions! Never let her know you took her game seriously.
As far as you are concerned, it was all just a joke and you never thought she meant it.
(P.S. Thank you, Wonka.)
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!