When my WW bd'ed I knew right away there was an A and who it was with. I had suspected for a long time there was something going on but I just couldn't believe she would do that to me. But she did and here we are. Knowing doesn't make a blind bit of difference except the temptation to snoop and contact the OM goes through the roof. Do neither.
Peace
I don't mind one bit. The more the merrier!
You're right. I was very tempted to contact the OM, but it's not his fault and it wouldn't do any good. All it would do is show my W that I still care. And I don't want her to see that.
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