I have a counseling session today. Been going since two days after BD end of April. Last week, W went with me for one session so my counselor could meet her. (She won't commit right now to MC because she's "not ready to commit to saving our marriage because she is madly in love with OM and doesn't want to leave him")

she told my counselor that she would have fallen in love and had the EA "even if our marriage was perfect". She told him OM is perfect for her.


Me: 39y/o male
Wife: 35y/o
1 daughter, 2y/o