I put some clues together and figured out who my W is having her A with. It wasn't too hard once all the pieces lined up. Knowing what I know now, I know that it's been going on for at least 2 months and is still going on.
I assumed all of this already, but actually knowing... it's making it hard. I feel like I'm ready to tell her to GTFO and file for D myself. I just don't know how I could ever go back to looking at her the same way.
At the same time I ask myself, what does this really change? Nothing really... I already assumed everything I now know and I still wanted the marriage to work.
I don't know. I know I'm rambling. I didn't sleep at all last night. Probably one of the hardest nights I've had since it all happened.
Hi Archer, hope you don't mind me dropping by.
When my WW bd'ed I knew right away there was an A and who it was with. I had suspected for a long time there was something going on but I just couldn't believe she would do that to me. But she did and here we are. Knowing doesn't make a blind bit of difference except the temptation to snoop and contact the OM goes through the roof. Do neither.
Peace
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
