Anyway, my wife says she loves me but isn't in love with me. She syas new guy is perfect for her, she's madly in love with him, and needs time to think. She doesn't know if she wants to save our marriage or not, and can't call it off with the new guy because they work together. She "knows" that she's doing is wrong, that it hurts me, that it will shatter our family, and hurt our daughter. The only thing she can say about all that is "I know".
Ah, the old ILYBINILWY speach. I got the exact same nonsense when she BD'd. It's a hard process. My WW is now in full A mode and, hate to say it mate but that's where your W is heading.
Read Sandi2's threads on the WW. They are priceless and they will guide you on how you should conduct yourself.
keep posting, and drop in on other threads. The community here is great and they will help you.
Last edited by NDY; 05/21/1510:24 AM. Reason: TYPO
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
