We don't plan this stuff - you're gonna make a cock up of things! Read sandi2's rules, they are priceless.
Read some of the threads on here. Good advice and support abound. Post your thoughts, ask questions. You'll get a pool of people who will gravitate towards you, as well as people who will just pop by.
Best thing is not to beg or plead. That really turns them off. Don't worry, we've all done it before we get here. Keep thinking you've done nothing wrong.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
