Make Love in the Middle of a Warzone

[NDY]

Dude, I've just caught up on your thread. I read it on the train but couldn't face posting until I had access to a real computer.

It hurts that she has no respect me for me a husband, but she has no respect for me as a human being - which HAS made me feel worthless.

You are not worthless. You are a fantastic dad, always will be. Take strength from the fact that your kids love you and depend on you for their well being. One of you needs to be the leader here and it ain't your WW.

There is no +ve way of stripping cum stained sheets off your mariatal bed without being insanely chirpy (Oh at least W is having a good time).

This made me sick to my stomach. Mate, I know it's too late to stop the kids meeting the OM. I also know it's too late to put up a boundary with the OM being at your house, but THIS? No way. I'd put my foot down about this one right away. You tell her that when it's your turn to be in the house you want the sheets clean. If not, she'll find them on the BBQ the next time she turns up. I would not stand for this at all. It's worse than disrespectful, it's down right insulting.

Look, your WW is a paper tigress. Take your b*lls back and stand up to her. Who gives a fig if you upset her right now.