AWH, I'm so sorry - that's awful. And sad that he said such mean things too. He is deep in fog and with a woman who sounds emotionally fragile too. Bear in mind that he may have told her negative things about your M, and she may believe she is rescuing him from a 'witchy' wife. I would ignore any communications with her - as V once said - she's a wormette, and not worthy of your wisdom.
AH, focusing on him just now is going to bring misery, misery, misery. He has nothing good to offer you just now. So, I would focus on three things - you - your family and legal protection. I would pack up his stuff and leave it in the garage for him to pick up. And I would choose the best of the two L's and follow their advice. Who knows what may happen in the longer term, but please remove your focus from him and OW. I wouldn't wish such illness on anyone & that's a sad thing whomever she is and whatever she may have done. He is in a miserable situation. There's nothing you can do for him just now - only save yourself! Take care (((((AW))))))
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
