Confused 5

[Joe46]

I have changed my mind on when to tell wife about filing. I don't want there to be a scene. She has used the older kids in the past when I have laid out my boundaries. And things have gotten ugly. She will probably do the same with the younger ones. The kids are going to be upset as it is. I would also like her to leave in peace. Calm, cool and collected. The way things have been around here, I am not even sure if she will be upset. She may even be relieved.