Thanks KAW and Water

So true about that moving target - sometimes it moves daily!!

And renew4me - I totally agree - my wife is usually VERY adamant about any decision she makes - yet this one - to leave me - has thrown her totally - she even admitted to me that 'I thought I had it so clear in my mind but now I just don't know'. I think she's surprised that for once she's really divided...

A friend compared it to leaving a job that you really dislike but months later being offered a position back with the firm - and only choosing to return if the conditions are better and the boss has improved his attitude!

With you and me both renew it's just a matter of time....Cheers Evan