It's been a while since I've posted as I needed to take a break. I've been feeling really good, feeling detached, accepting that the divorce was going to happen, looking forward to whatever my future had in store. H blocked me from instagram over the weekend and then changed his relationship status to single on FB and I just let it roll off, knew it was a part of his journey.

But, tonight he told me that he accepted a job in a city 4 hours away and is moving. So my DB journey is over (the divorce busting part, not the personal growth part). This explains why he has been trying to push this divorce as fast as possible. I think it was realme that said to look for a silver lining in everything. The silver lining in this has to be that I won't ever have to worry about running into him with OW.


Me:36 H: 29
T: 4 years
M: 2 years
No kids
In-house sep 10/4/14
H moved out 1/2/15
Talk of D 4/9/15

"She's standing on a line between giving up and seeing how much more she can take" John Mayer