The W warms up anytime after I make plans or go out with the guys from work. I have read the LRT and after a week she really responded. I obviously caved in too quickly and she went right back to her wayward ways.
We ML several times a few weeks ago and nothing since. My W assures me the A is over but I have doubts. I suspect they continue to text to some extent but have refrained from snooping as this has caused issues in itself.
I read the Wayward wife threads and will be reading them again to help with backsliding. I filed for divorce because I thought that might wake her up...it did not. Your thread was an awakening and a mirror image of what I am living with but fear it may be too late. Thank you for your insight and for sharing your experience - you provided so many answers to my questions.
Either way I know I must focus on my happiness and that of my children. I choose not to be a victim or held hostage by this person impersonating my W.
Cadet - Thank you & your 100% right. The ride ends today.
Me42 W40 S12 D8 M:15yrs BD 3/27/15 D filed 4/27/15