I think this M is worth saving. You can't do it by yourself, but you can do your part.

First off, you waited years to get here, be patient. Don't let emotions of the day interfere with plans for the life.

Have you two talked about going on any type of M building retreat? Or do you have weekly counseling set up? Or did you two think it would just work itself out? I'm just curious about his thoughts on that.

Hang in.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15