Hi Cadet! smile

So what do you think? Am I being mean or unreasonable? Should I support him more /less?

I just want to feel like we're part of a team, like he cares about our family and sees us as a partnership? Cos he didn't pay any bills the first month either, and I definitely don't want it to be a standing thing.

At the same time, I really wish I can find a way to support him further.

Just tell me, I don't mind 2x4s, just want to figure out what to do

Mw, how are things with you?


Me 33, H 34
T 15 (on and off, 7 years this stretch)
M 4
DD 3
OW July 2010, IDLY - Oct 2010

1st sep 28/5/11-14/8/11 (my idea)
OW confirmed 25/11/11 (H travelled with OW 26/11/11)
I moved out 3/12/11