I do believe this is a slow and steady sitch. I also know that you currently have the resources to achieve that which you need.
Do I think you are DBing, yes absolutely you are. For yourself and your children, you are the stable parent here. By stopping the game of pretend you are completely DB. The sunlight of truth causes the night crawlers to wince with light exposure. They can not bear it.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW