So here I was patting myself on the back that my wife is interested and making baby steps at having interactions and communication with me, and it looks like u screwed things up again. Am I sacrificing long term gains with this most recent exchange? What should I do then? Tell her to forget about it? Make alternate plans?

Or should I use the opportunity to just remain cool and aloof, and play hard to get in the future. What's done is done. Any silver lining here?

Me M51
WW F46
T 17 yrs
M 16 yrs
9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17
8 grandchildren
ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14
I discover PA 12/31/14
She files D: 1/9/15
She moves out 3/2/15
D papers served 3/18/15