Here is a copy of the text exchange from last night:
Me: Sent home taco Tuesday for you but I'm told you made other plans.
You don't contact her to tell her you sent tacos her way (after buttering up her kids) and then found out she wasn't home....and so now you are checking up to see if she's with OM. How obvious can you be?!
W: Thank you. Not trying to poison me are you ? S17 said nobody was home tonight. They picked u
Notice she did not volunteer to tell you her whereabouts.
Me: Because you weren't there.
Really Krammer? You are still picking to find out where she was...and telling her you know she wasn't home. This is a big red no-no!
W: Not true. S17 texted me at 2pm to tell me.
W: I'm gonna show up next Tuesday for taco Tuesday- not gonna compete ! 😜
W: What if I snuck in and surprised u ?!
Me: It would be awesome.
Softly chuckles and says, "If you were to sneak in, you might be the one in for a surprise"[/i].
W:You don't have any weapons besides Poms do u ? W: Leave your bedroom door unlocked tomorrow
Me: Ok, I'll play along.
Teasingly says, "Who said I was going to be home tomorrow night?"
W: Goodnight
Me:What time tomorrow?OMG! You didn't say that?
W: That would ruin the surprise now wouldn't it? W: Late...
Me: Gotcha. I'm intrigued.Seriously?
Krammer, you should be the one intriguing her!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
