Thanks Pink you might be right about the asking for help one more time. I will wait until later today and ask just to make sure he doesn't offer on his own. Thanks for the advice.
Sometimes I think we get so wrapped up in what H is doing etc and trying to second guess them that we can't see the forest before the trees etc.. It is hard but just keeping saying what he does doesn't affect you eventually you will believe it.
Make it so.
Meaning, do not let his actions or words affect you. Is it easy? No. But is it complicated?
No. It's hard but it is simple. Luckily there are tools to use to help you achieve this "he doesn't bother me" autonomy.
GAL is one of them. So, back to YOU and what YOU are doing...How's the GAL plan?
Anything you can study, explore, visit, sign up for, JOIN, audition for, attend, coach or volunteer for this week/month?
Let's hear about those...
Have you seen a L? I ask so that you can address some of the fears you have about being left behind. Knowledge is power and you need "DO" nothing with the information, except gather it. For me, it was very reassuring (& calming!)
to know that my fears of being "on the streets" were totally unfounded.
And now, back to your GAL
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