My first impulse is to text her to call you. Actually probably say, "I figured he & they would deny. I was told you thought I was crazy for calling you. I'd rather speak to you directly. I have a few questions I'd only feel comfortable discussing with you on the phone. Obviously this is an extremely sensitive discussion and I'd like to know I was actually talking with you. I hope that's ok."
You'll get to express and get much more detail in a phone call.
Also, you never know who's on the other end of that phone if you text.
This is great advice if I decide to contact OM's W. She did say before that OM is the tech guru and controls all the devices.
I think the trick here would be to give and convince OM's W to only move forward with intel against her H that she could verify without me getting involved, like phone calls and text from his own cell phone. I can ask and tell OM's W about the new land phone line to convince her of continued contact but I am not really looking forward to going down the spew route again with STBX. However, I'm sure STBX will suspect me again if there is any new turbulence in her A anyway.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
