Yes, you are doing a great job and I think that the more you do it the better you get at it.
Thanks for stopping by at my thread and give me the 2x4 over my head. Some days I get overwhelmed with all the stuff and then I get very frustrated with H because he decide to delay everything about the D.
It's also the last week of my high school kids, so lots of projects, concert, French movie, Spanish movie, parties, finals, football camp and on and on. I feel like I am going crazy sometimes.
Related to the car, I am like you, I do not like asking anything for my H. But, in your case he goes to your house and does things around to help you (my H doesn't). If it is a deal of money, then if you ask him one more time, may not hurt anything and you both can save money this way.
Besides, you said that he already got a little frustrated once when you asked for someone else's help and not for him.
But, I am not very old here, so maybe some vet will give you better advice. Just my 2c.
By the way, I like reading your posts and it has been helping me to keep some focus on what direction I must go and why.
