Starsky, thank you for sharing your experience. It's interesting that you went through the same thing!
I understand what you're saying about the back door being open, I absolutely agree. I will attend to closing it at some point, I just want to time it right. What is it they say about eating an elephant, you have to do it one bite at a time?
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17