Right after BD, I actually said to my H that working our marriage would be easier, the right thing to do, gave stats on second marriage divorce rates, etc. He just got angry and it went in one ear and right out the other. He said he was not even thinking about divorce and afterwards, so why was I?
His point was that we already had time to work on it and nothing happened. Problem is his version of working on it was never going to help. I think we both thought it would miraculously change. The big barrier to all of this is A. That is what marriage really should look like 24/7, right??
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
