Everything feels so raw again today. Really wish this process was linear or I knew how not to go in circles.

Gem from last nights group:

Ask yourself only the questions that will assist with your healing. Knowing what hotel, what she was wearing, when he fell out of love, these answers will likely do little for you.


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.