What's the best way to deal with W's text. Should I tell her to stop sending? Should I respond when there not about kids? Seems she is sending more text the more I detach. How do I proceed? I ignore them and when she gets home she bust my balls on why don't I respond. I know exactly how it feels to text someone and not get answers back. It s..ks. I've already told her "I don't respond unless its important, I'm trying to detach". Seems she's not happy unless she's controlling the situation.