The story so far... -STBX involved in A since late December/early January 2015 -I begin versions of LRT in mid-February -STBX moves in with her parents first week of April -I expose A to OM's W in mid-April -STBX threatens to file for D immediately following exposure of A -Holding pattern for now
Personally, I feel like I've come a long way in a relatively short period, largely because of the support I've received here. I am slowly learning to detach and come to the realization that this is going to be a very long journey. There is no magic bullet. The true goal is for me to become a whole person on the other side, no matter what the outcome. I owe this to myself and to my kids.
"Begin to be now what you will be hereafter." -William James
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
