I'm still having a hard time accepting her emotions are going to be all over the place. She seemed to be in a good mood yesterday and seemed to be somewhat seeking out my attention, but I leave and then come home from a meeting and she just seems annoyed at me and thinks what we are doing is a waste of time. She doesn't want to talk about anything, but she gets angry that I'm not bringing anything up about our situation. I bring stuff up and then she gets annoyed that I'm trying to solve our problem.
Like cadet says. 180 that right away. No R talks. Don't try to 'Fix' anything. She doesn't want to be 'Fixed'. Don't argue, don't contradict. If she wants to talk then validate (the validation cheat sheet is in cadets links).
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.