We are over, now what?

[Tulo]

It all just keeps you attached, when more detachment is what you are working towards.

Take care, T :-)

Thanks Toots for your reply!

I know you are right, and I need to either take him off (just thinking that I might loose the op to show him my GAL through out the summer, and not sure I want that) or stop reacting when things show up, and stop going into his wall.

I need to focus on detaching and this isn't doing the trick, obviously.. But I've calmed down and won't call him like a bat out of hell screaming at him. Something I've never really done, so why start now.

I have to see this as something that will take time, and not go crazy all the time. Hopefully time will make it easier.

Now, I have to get a move on, going to paint my nieces apartment today, and I sure need to get out of the house and interact with some people.

Thanks again! Keep well! Hug