It sounds like we are in very similar places. I have finally been able to get OW for the most part out of our bedroom. I did it by reclaiming it - frequently.
This may seem totally crazy, but I also plan on doing a sage burning in the whole house to cleanse it for negative energy.
And I really recommend MC. We go weekly to a DB counselor and it helps me organize my thoughts and concerns and present them there instead of ambushing H on a frequent basis. When we go to MC, he is prepared for uncomfortable conversations and knows that they have a limit. He expressed in our last session that he appreciates how I have backed off and that it helps him be more open.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
