The problem here is this all makes me fall back into my standard feelings of this being temporary.
I really need to learn to detach, but it's hard when I see what I think are positive signs knowing others are just seeing cake eating and such that I'm blinded to.
Yes, show don't talk . Anytime you try and tell the WAS what your changing all they hear is that your changing to keep them around. The changes have to be for yourself to show any real sign that its permanent. If your just doing it for her they wont be.
All those expectations of things getting better, its going to cause you some real issues as time goes by. Why shes talkative to you could be for 100 difference reasons, trying to figure it out wont help you.
You cant think your way out of detaching all the time. Your over analyzing everything at this point so the only way to get her out of your mind is to replace those thoughts with something else. GAL and keep yourself occupied so your thinking of something else.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
