So what my support meant is that I'm going to STFU and not tell him what works for me unless he asks. I'm also supporting him by not stepping in. I should reword the goal so it's clearer.
Hi Eirinn,
First, I want to thank you for all your support -- you rock!
Goal #2, restated a little, makes more sense to me, too. You have gotten great advice from Toots (as usual)and from my friend Z.
I will dedicate a prayer to your family tonight, in particular your S. That has to be stressful, let's hope for the best.
*Hugs*
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15