drop the rope- part II

[Elly4]

Hi Zephyr! Glad to see you posting and that my post gave you some ideas to think about. I wanted to bring up something about your posts in the last week or so. It's great that your W wants to do things with you, but I would make sure you still do some things on your own. Maybe the vets will disagree with me, but it seems that you need to make sure you have "you" time without your W. If she wants to come, just let her know that maybe next time, but this time you want to go by yourself. Or don't even let her know what you're going out to do. That will help break the codependency for you both...I think. Does that make sense?

And we all have to improve our detachment!

hugs
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