"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Hey lost, you came on my thread to announce that your W had asked to reconcile, but that you declined. Do you care do give us more details here? Since you don't have a signature, tell us your age, her age, your kids, the length of your R and M, the date of BD and the point at which she asked you to R. Tell us how it happened, but also how you responded and why. I'll make sure to link to this detailed post in my success stories under the "Letting go" section.
Congratulations because it sounds like DBing has given you a choice and that you're happy with it.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
I can relate to your story a bit. I too am being betrayed by a spouse who I supported emotionally and financially through school for the past 12 years. Oh, and a full year of unemployment after school was done. Apparently, I did not meet enough of his needs, which I certainly own up to. Would have thought I did enough to warrant at least an attempt at working on M, not an A. Oh, did I mention the A started when he was still unemployed and living on my $. I feel your pain. Hang in there the best you can.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
