I have such a hard time with just letting stuff come out of my mouth. After last R conversation, I vowed to STFU!! Takes a lot of self control for sure. Last night I almost brought up discrepancy with his last work trip. Luckily, I opted to bite my tongue. Resulted in a really good hour conversation we would not have had. Bringing up trip would not have gotten me anywhere accept for about 1/2 hr of feeling good?!


Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015