So surreal - I just dropped off the kids at her house, and at same time the other guys spouse is picking up her child. What alternate universe have I landed in?! Any advice for dealing with the OM spending time with my kids? He is completely not worthy of knowing them. And I can't even wrap my mind around what this will do to my kids long term - another selfish choice by my wife and this guy.
Me44 WAW44 T22 M13 S10 S6 BD Aug 2014 PA Dec 2014;OM is divorcing,one D4, one S due Feb 2015 with Stbx wife OM moves in with WAW Jan 2015 WAW file divorce Mar 2015 50/50 custody settled July 2015