So surreal - I just dropped off the kids at her house, and at same time the other guys spouse is picking up her child. What alternate universe have I landed in?! Any advice for dealing with the OM spending time with my kids? He is completely not worthy of knowing them. And I can't even wrap my mind around what this will do to my kids long term - another selfish choice by my wife and this guy.


Me44 WAW44
T22 M13
S10 S6
BD Aug 2014
PA Dec 2014;OM is divorcing,one D4, one S due Feb 2015 with Stbx wife
OM moves in with WAW Jan 2015
WAW file divorce Mar 2015
50/50 custody settled July 2015