Kramer - don't you have the same opportunity to show that in every interaction you have? Look good, smell good, be positive, etc.
Isn't that part of the LRT/Going Dark techniques? The key in those though is consistency and time for her to trust it. Then, hopefully she starts pursuing you and you'll know she is. Not just general niceities.
Also, in doing it that way, you aren't pursuing. At least that's how I understood the concept.
And that's the point I'm trying to make. We have no kids together. She lives in a separate household across town. We work at different sites and we don't see each other at all. The emails and texts are the only interactions we have. I don't have the opportunity to show her my improvements, other than through these communiques.
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