Thanks Cadet and NDY. NDY, looks like your BD was about 3 months before mine. I am definitely in it for the long haul. Luckily this situation has helped me mature as a man and it has definitely renewed me relationship with the Lord. I try to focus on the positive things that happen, but they easily get overshadowed when I think we have taken a step back.

I constantly say I know I won't understand my WW behavior, it's still hard for me to accept that. It's just still so shocking to me that all of this has happened. I'm so thankful to have found this site.

She meets with our marriage counselor on Thursday and I will go on Friday; I am praying this is the right counselor for our situation. She has been seeing a counselor on her own and I have my doubts on how beneficial that has been.

Me: 32 Her: 29
M: 5 T: 11
D2
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me)
W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15
Papers served 6-3-15
Temporary Order 7-15-15
W Moved out 7-17-15