Of course, I messed up yesterday.

He texted me from work, "I have no staff here after 3:45 so I need to stay till 5 so I will be home at 5:30. I would like to say meet me for supper, but our S is suffering from allergies and we don't have the money."

I responded with, "Okay, no problem. Our S is feeling better today so if you wanted to go out to eat I could pay for it this time."

He responded, "Save your money. I will be home early enough for us to eat at home. I'm glad S is feeling better."

The night seemed much more tense and he was on the phone all night. Guess I shouldn't have offered to pay as that brings up his complaint that he can't support our family the way he wants to.


M 46 / H 43
T 24/M 18
S 4
11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY
1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom
1/8/2016 H moved out