I have been thinking hard since yesterday and I believe that I am going to sit down and talk to W. I am going to tell her that I have hired a lawyer and I am filing for legal separation. I will tell her that this is not what I wanted, but I am doing it for myself and to protect my rights and to protect the kids. I also think it is time. She is planning on leaving Tuesday, so now I just have to decide when to have the talk.
Be prepared for some serious blow back or spew from W. Just keep in the back of your mind and not get sucked into an argument with W when you do inform her of your intentions.
