My only query is about Goal 2, from which I'm picking up vibes of you being A team parent and him being B or C team only, and sensitive about that too.
Does fact that you believe he needs 'support' to deal with his S just reinforce that?
I think you should tread carefully with this one. What form had you seen 'support' as taking? If he feels you didn't trust him with your S, would it be a better goal to step back and trust that he will be a good dad - rather than supporting??
Maybe I'm misinterpreting the goal, and I'm not even a parent either - step parent only - so do wait for others (particularly Dads?) to chime in too.
Otherwise, I think the goals look fab and good luck!
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
