Give yourself grace, Kramer. You are going through one of the toughest things anyone can experience. Although we can tell you there are better ways to do things, it doesn't always mean they are right, based on your sitch.

For me too, it's easier to give advice to others, I have no emotional connection to and say "you should do this". When the same thing happens to my sitch and I get similar advice, I question and say "yeah, but . . ."

The "yeah buts" will get you every time. Trust your own advice you'd give to others, take a deep breath and let the process work. You've already seen some progress.


M-33
W-33
S-11, S-8
M-11, T-14
BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18
I moved out 5/23