A) D7 has her end-of-year show this week. WW wants us to sit together as a family and seems to think it's entirely natural. I didn't want to, but now I'm not sure. It might be better for D3 and D7 to see their parents together. But I didn't want to sit with her because I don't want the awkwardness, nor the conversations. Also, I've become quite demonstrative since BD and fully expect to cry a good bit when I'll see D7 sing her bit of Les Miz, in part because I'm so hurt that I lost half of my kids. So, is it better if I agree and sit with her?
I vote sit together if it's what your D wants, and if you think you can do it. H and I almost always sit together at games, shows, etc. We don't even ask, it's just understood that's what's going to happen. We both feel it's best for us to present a united front as parents. But I also know what's right for us is not right for everyone, so if you end up not sitting together, don't feel badly about it, at least you were there.
