Monday morning mom called to find out how I'm doing. Told her H wanted to proceed with D but at the same time wants to give time to work it out. Mom didn't sound too happy. She thinks I haven't been doing any changes and keeps telling me that I'm the one to blame for what happened in my M. Me being the good daughter of course just kept quiet. It's emotionally draining talking to her. Instead of her telling me that it'll be ok and that I'll be able to handle D and that she'll be around for me, I'm down that has to console her! She says I'm argumentative, opinionated and refuse to look at other people's point of view which is why my H wants the D. I felt like saying, "yes mom. I learned it from you growing up." But of course I didn't. I'm so stressed right now
