Pink's Journey # 2

[Sotto]

Hi Pink, don't worry about your message to H - it's done now. Just learn and move forward. I feel the same, that I want to show H how much I am hurting, but also I want to try and save our M. But with DB, it is hard to always maintain the aura of moving on - sometimes we slip and that's okay. A M wasn't made or broken by a single interaction.

Sounds like you and I are at similar points with the house. Ours is going to be listed for sale this week. My experience with houses is that there will either be a little flurry right at the start and it sells, or it just takes a while and many viewings. In many ways, I just feel quite numb about the house and I want to get it shifted, have money in the bank and move on. In others, we have many family memories there, got married from there, and it is hard to leave behind.

My H has been pretty helpful with the house actually. I have removed pretty much all of my stuff now. But there was quite a bit of tidying and sorting out to do, which he has done. I'm glad, because I didn't really want to do that - although I have offered help. Funny having your H upstairs in the house....how do you feel about that??

Have a good day my friend xx